Private Investigators and Relationships

Employing the services of a Sydney private investigator isn’t an easy decision; it is often a last resort. Whether trying to catch an unfaithful partner or look into the history of a potential business associate, it takes a great deal of thoughtfulness and professionalism to deal with such cases and the client places an enormous amount of trust in the private investigator. These frequently asked questions should offer readers with a comprehension of some of the issues that have to be considered very carefully before trying to catch a cheating spouse.

Is it ethical?

This is one of the most common anxieties when thinking about hiring a private investigator, especially when attempting to catch a cheater. If a secret affair could be described as two-faced and deceiving, then how would we describe the act of secretly employing an investigator to watch their every move?

Unfortunately, cases in which initial suspicions prove true account for the majority of matrimonial investigations, well over 80%  In these cases, there is hardly a moral case to argue as the suspicions of the client were proven true. Often, the suspecting spouse has given the cheating partner every chance to admit their affair, choosing only to turn to the help of a private investigator when the sequence of suspicion and lies continues again and again. But that doesn’t make the decision to hire a private investigator any easier – it is one of the hardest things you will ever do.

In cases when activities can be explained innocently, the moral and ethical case can seem less clear. But finding out that initial suspicions are incorrect can also bring long lasting peace of mind. In these cases the questioning party may choose to tell their partner which aspects of behaviour caused the suspicion in the first place, prompting them to change their ways and help re-establish trust within the relationship.

What steps can I take before hiring a licensed private detective?

If you are reading this article, it would seem that you already have strong suspicions that your partner is having an affair and feel that hiring a private investigator might offer a solution. But how can you be sure that you've taken every step to offer your cheating partner to admit infidelity? Confronting your partner may be enough to either confirm or allay your concerns. However, if you still have doubts, it’s time to call in the experts. The  other side of this point is that if you confront your partner before investigating the issue, then they have just be made aware that you are suspicious in the first place and this may encumber a surveillance investigation further down the track.

What if my spouse finds out I had them observed?

When attempting to catch a cheating partner it is most important to select the best private investigator for the job. An experienced private investigator will have all the necessary skill and know-how to carry out surveillance efficiently and discretely without compromising the client. Choosing the right private investigator is one of the most important factors that will determine the results achieved.

Do I really want to know the truth?

You already know the answer to that question. Finding out the truth can be one of the most overwhelming and painful moments that life can throw at you. For some relationships the damage is irreversible but others learn to work through their issues, emerging from the ordeal stronger and with a renewed sense of promise.

Should you wish to contact us here at Lipstick Investigations in Sydney or in Brisbane and the Gold Coast, please call us on 1300LIPSTICK or email us directly at enquiries@lipstickinvestigations.com.au